Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; — Colossians 3:12 (KJV)
As elects of God,we sure have a role to play. We must be full of mercy. Never try to get back to anyone that wrong you:show mercy. Kindness ,humility ,meekness and longsuffering is expected of us.