Perhaps sometimes love isn't enough. Maybe you feel that you are a good person, but you are not able to satisfy your partner. Or maybe you simply need more help.
When you are not sure if you are getting what you want from the relationship, then it is time to ask for what you want. However, do not accuse your partner of not giving enough love or intimacy. This will only make them doubt you more. So when you need more help, you have to make an effort to try something different approach.
You can let your partner know that you are there and willing to give what you want when you want it. Love is all about giving. It is not about receiving in return. So do not be afraid to give the attention and love that you want. Be there for your partner, because without love, no relationship is possible.
Some people believe that the word "love" has a sexual connotation, which is not true. It does not mean having sex with someone. Instead, it means giving and taking in different ways. Whether it is being patient and kind or being there and doing your share, love can be found in a lot of different ways.
You also need to find out if your partner is the same as you. Do you have similar views or opinions? If so, then it is likely that you are not reaching the right person.
At times, you may need to think about something new. Try to stop being afraid to ask for what you need. After all, nobody really wants to be told they need more help, right?
Love is not about being perfect. It is a relationship based on mutual love between two people. You both need to understand and accept this. So, the next time you feel like you are having problems, instead of getting angry and saying, "Why is this happening?" Just accept the fact that you need love.