Life is real, but people who have a hypocritical life. Hypocrites with real life are like an impossible light coming out of a black hole in the void.
A life woven with lies is indeed relatively empty, without any color, just excessive gloom.
For most of us ordinary people, in fact, no matter when, we lie less often. Otherwise, it will only damage your reputation and even hurt yourself.
Why do many people now place more importance on honesty and even build an honesty system?
The very straightforward reason is that only if everyone keeps their promises and has the right praise, can this person be considered a good person.
Most of us hate people with "liars," but it is difficult to understand what is special about these people and it is difficult to detect them.
In fact, all lies are generated by them from the inside out after processing from the inside.
In general, those who enjoy "lies" often have habits that don't fool people.
01. People who lie are more empty in their hearts
A real person, why would he want to lie?
Because these people are empty in their hearts. It's like an unfilled sandbag, the sand inside will only leak continuously, and nothing is real at all.
There is such a person who has no abilities or achievements, but he likes to brag about himself in front of others and brag about lies.
After his friend and him got to know each other, his friend realized that this so-called winner was just an ordinary person without abilities.
And he likes to lie, not because of his short face, he also wants his heart to be enriched, no longer like a leaky balloon, without fullness.
If someone is not empty and lacks confidence, then who will lie?
02. People who lie are humble
The person lacks self-confidence, so he must be a person who is too inferior.
Low self-esteem is a psychological problem that most people experience. If it conforms to an inferiority complex, it is harmless to humans. But if you have too low self-esteem, it is dangerous for people.
What's more, people who have low self-esteem often don't want others to know that they are inferior. Therefore, it will do its best to hide the status of the original character.
There is a word that can be summed up very well, namely, "Strengthen on the outside but do it in the middle." And this "strong" is what people deliberately create to cover up lies.
The biggest feature of lies is that they can deceive others and at the same time immobilize their own nerves.
Someone once said that people who can take lying to the highest level can often deceive themselves.
Therefore, those who like "liars" are often those with low self-esteem.
03. People who lie are different.
There is a saying well that one is the first, but the one is behind the other.
Some people, like the fox, treat you well in front of you, and even please you. But what about in secret? But I want to kill you, count you.
They have the title, "hypocrites".
He not only deceived his fellow students with lies, but also deceived his relatives, which could be described as the ultimate interpretation of a hypocritical life.
In fact, ordinary liars are not bad, because some people lie just to cover up their low self-esteem or to make a profit.
The world's scariest liar can be said to be a hypocrite.
In dealing with hypocrites, we actually cannot reveal their behavior, but choose to stay away from them on time, so as not to cause problems in the upper body.
04. People who lie, especially love faces
People who lie can fill their hearts with lies and make themselves full of confidence. And their ultimate goal is to get a face for themselves.
If a person likes faces very much, he will exaggerate himself from time to time, thereby attracting the jealousy of others and allowing himself to live in the eyes of others.
It's like some people who are in the middle class, who are not fluctuating, when facing outsiders are bound to exaggerate themselves and describe themselves as omnipotent.
But what about the real situation? It must be much worse than self in a lie.
In a deeper sense, a person who likes to lie is definitely a person who is full of pride. Sometimes, I would rather suffer than let my lies be exposed.
Just like some people who like to post to Moments, even though they have never traveled anywhere, they will add to their appearance.
What is the purpose of this approach? I just wanted to satisfy my pride so that I could be recognized and praised by others.
After all, the more you lie, the more hypocritical you will end up.
What's more, in most cases, after you've lied, you end up having to cover it up with countless lies.