Someone once said that love is like clear water flowing slowly in a river spring, after all it takes someone to moisten it.
Nothing is filling and moisturizing, so the springs will eventually dry out. Because compared to Baijiang Dahai, it is still relatively weak.
In fact, both parties love the same. If one party loses protection and which party loses love, the end result of this party can only be a simple life.
No love can be left alone, and no love can last forever. Because people's hearts change and fireworks cool easily, everything will disappear with the change of time.
A person who lacks love and attention, then his soul is definitely more "empty". The essence of love is filling. And without fillers like that, how can people live happily?
We may find that those who are "less in love" in their lives have clear characteristics.
In the psychology of love, there is a saying that people who lack the nutrition of love have become dry bodies, without the glory of the past.
Just like men who have been "lacking in love" for a long time, no matter how they hide, this special smell will appear on their bodies, which is difficult to hide.
Men who have long been lacking in love are inferior
When a man does not have a woman's love, no matter how capable he is, he will become inferior and insecure.
Because there are many inferiority complexes in this world, they all originate from human bones, and they don't change.
It can be said that once a man has an inferiority complex, then the end result of this man is definitely not going well, and life is relatively unhappy.
Just imagine, how boring would a man be without a woman to love? This kind of boredom will likely leave him disinterested in anything.
Just like those who had lost their relationship and were forced to divorce, when they were in such a situation, they must have lost seven souls and six souls and lost their god.
These people, no matter how they went to work, how to relax, or how to live, it was impossible for them to heal their wounded heart in a short time.
A man who has been deprived of love for a long time is more easily offended
I've seen a man like that, after his divorce, he became very irritable.
When working at the company, no matter how his peers deal with it, he will ignore it. When the intern asked for it, he had no patience.
And slowly, this person became the “God of Plague” that everyone in the company had avoided.
In fact, he was not like this before, but a cheerful, generous, and polite man. He was very cultured, and every time he spoke, he would have the support of his peers.
But divorce made her heart cold.
Why did she go into such a situation after the divorce? It was because of a man who had been deprived of love for a long time, he could no longer feel warmth.
Without the warm power to suppress irritability in the heart, one day this irritable mood will explode.
Men who have been deprived of love for a long time are more indifferent
One writer once wrote: "When indifference becomes the norm in people's lives, this person will eventually freeze up in the world of indifference."
In this society, it is normal to treat people nonchalantly. However, if this person was always indifferent, be it towards friends or family, that would be very abnormal.
Indifferent people, they must have endured the cruel blow of life. Because people's indifference does not exist naturally, but is endowed by human experience.
Take for example people who are as cold as icebergs, why do they close their hearts so that they are no longer warm to the heart, but only bitter cold?
The most direct reason is that this man has been short of love for a long time. This kind of love can be parental love or wife love.
Without parental love, the person will be heartless. Without the love of his wife, the person will become cold. Including temperament, including nature.
A man who has been short of love for a long time becomes cranky
Mr. Roy in the community, he lost his father when he was 18, and his wife when he was 36. His life was very lonely.
When he was 40 years old, he was sent to the hospital by his clan for treatment. Due to his mental problems, there was already a phenomenon of confusion.
The doctor said that she was overcome with sadness and went to the extreme, which is why she became mentally confused.
In fact, things like that often happen in life. Even young people who have lost their love for a while, this will happen.
Because these people feel that they have lost hope, their hearts are empty, and even their loved ones have lost their way. This way, people are not sad, this is not normal.
But if a person is too sad, there will be sadness and confusion.
Because of this, a man who has been short of love for a long time will become cranky. It's just that, this kind of wild thought escaped my mind naturally, and was even more out of control.