I want to start first off by saying, when you are alone, that is when the magic happens.
I know there are many individuals out there who are apprehensive and scared of being alone or they just plain don’t like the thought of being alone in general, I have written this blog to actually educate everyone that there is nothing wrong with being alone at all. It is just your personal perception and perspective. Your mindset and subconscious beliefs are what is making you feel in such a manner and it is entirely up to you what you choose to do about this, if anything.
Does anyone know how some of the legends of the past, Leonardo Da Vinci, Nikola Tesla, Albert Einstein, were some of the greatest minds in their time? Each of these has spoken about how being alone has enabled them to be as creative, imaginative and inventive to the point of where they changed the world in their own unique and special way.
Let me explain.
After I ended a very long-term relationship which was mentally, emotionally and financially abusive, I spent one year alone which was the most important, healing and rewarding period in my life so far. To keep this fairly short and sweet, this period was where I had a few, full spiritual awakenings, epiphanies and eye-opening experiences. This was when, not only did I manage to heal my trauma, hurts and pain but I was able to transcend and transmute this pain. I learnt how to use the pain to make me a leader, not a monster. To help people and share my knowledge and wisdom with the world which is precisely why I am writing this blog and growing my YouTube channel. Now I understand why I had to go through what I did, how I grew from this and what lessons I have taken aboard that I am now able to share with all of you.
In the time I spent alone, I made so many new friends all over the world, genuinely beautiful souls, I was taught how to meditate using one particular style which included guided meditation utilising 936hz binaural beats and solfeggio music which helped to awaken and activate my pineal gland.
I learnt how to love and respect myself which is something I covered in my second blog. I understood now why that was so important in general. It was also an important thing to learn when it came to getting back into the dating game which I didn’t really want to do. I discovered after months had passed just how happy and content, I was with being alone. The freedom of it. It was peaceful. My consciousness expanded day after day, week after week. I discovered who I was as an individual. My true essence. Once I peeled back all of the layers of programming and subconscious beliefs, all that was left was me coming face to face with my own soul. My higher self. I embraced all of my imperfections and just accepted myself for who I was.
In this time, I learnt how the universe speaks to us. Through our feelings which is connected to our Intuition, through coins or cash you find on the ground randomly, through numerology, seeing number sequences on the clock or on car number plates etc. Through songs you hear on the radio which happens to be playing the exact second you are there to hear it. Through the certain individuals it brings into your life for a reason, a season, a purpose or forever. I won’t list everything on here, I may even dedicate one entire blog to this. How the universe communicates to us.
If I can learn all of this by just spending time in solitude, imagine what you can learn yourself by being alone. Being alone has a power not many people can handle but it is well worth it. Trust me.